I have had the busiest week ever, and in the wake of International Women’s Day I got thinking, womanhood; what does it really mean?
One of my favourite classics of all time is Little Women by Louisa M. Alcott; the March sisters are all so different yet they are all women aged between 12 and 16. This reiterates that women come in different shapes and colours, we wear many caps, and like an octopus with many limbs we’re expected to juggle all these different aspects of our lives and hold them all in balanced tension.
Little giggling girls with wide eyed innocence, without a care in the world.
Playful pre-teens and adventurous serious-eyed teenagers.
The young woman on the threshold of the future.
The career woman, juggling work and the home front.
The woman in her twilight years.
The grandmother, who has lived life to the full.
I see you
The quiet woman, afraid to voice her opinion because she’s been shouted down ever so often that she believes she doesn’t have a voice.
The teenage girl who just wishes for a listening ear.
The abused girl or woman who buries the hurt and the pain deep down. The woman who is the “life and soul” of the party, who talks a lot to cover her insecurities.
I see you
The women holding the home front together so their husbands can achieve their dreams
The career woman juggling work, home, husband, children, extended family, and being overwhelmed by the sheer pressure of it all
I see you
I attended a medical school which in the 70s had just one hostel block for women, compared to seven hostel blocks for men, fast forward to the 80s, when I attended, that one female hostel block was bursting at the seams;
To all the pioneer female medical and dental students, thank you for pushing the boundaries and breaking the mould!
To the women challenging the status quo;
Malala Yousafzai
Zuriel Oduwole, teenage education activist and film maker
Chimamanda Adichie
Yelena Isinbaeva, the greatest female pole vaulter, the first time I saw this woman participating in the pole vault event I was super excited
Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, first female and African WTO Director General
Serena and Venus Williams
Lupita Nyong’o
And to the Angela Merkels” and the Michelle Obamas” of this world, thank you for raising the bar
As I write this in the wake of the Harry & Megan Oprah Winfrey interview;
I think of women at every stage of life; women with different life struggles
To every girl who’s been bullied and landed on her feet on the other side; to every girl who is still being bullied, stay strong; these light and momentary troubles are achieving for you a greater eternal glory 2 Corinthians 4:17
Women;
I salute you
I celebrate you
You are amazing
You are beautiful
You are priceless
You are enough
Hold your head up high;
And until this equality battle is won, let’s keep pushing the boundaries, let’s keep raising the bar; there’s still more grounds to be won, and more gender barriers to pull down.
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Abimbola
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Wow! What an inspiring write up. Thanks Bimbo. I thank God I’m a woman. God bless you!